Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts

Friday, April 26, 2024

Money in a Jar

Veronika was concerned when she found Billy looking sad.

"What's the problem, Billy?" she asked. "You look as if you just lost your best friend."


Billy gave a big sigh. "I need a new puzzle," he said. "I've put this one together a million times already. It's no fun anymore. I would buy a new one, but I don't have any money."


Veronika sat down next to Billy. "I understand how you feel, Billy," she said. "You remember how much fun it was to put it together when it was brand new, and you want that feeling again, but now it's too easy, so it isn't fun anymore."


Billy nodded.

"You get your allowance tomorrow, don't you?" Veronika asked.


Billy nodded again. "But it won't be enough for the puzzle I need," he said.


Veronika climbed back up on the table, so she could look at Billy. "A puzzle isn't something you need, Billy," she explained. "It's something you want. That isn't the same thing." 


"Something you need is a place to live, people and dolls who love you, clothes to wear and food you can pretend to eat. It's pretend dog food for Freckles and visits to the vet if she pretends to get sick. Those things come first."
"I have all that, though," Billy said, "and a lot more, too."


"Then you're a very lucky doll," Veronika said. "Some dolls don't have all that. Some dolls are still in their boxes, waiting for a home. Some dolls are stored away in boxes because no one plays with them anymore."
"I still want a new puzzle, though," Billy sighed.


"If you don't have enough money for something you want," Veronika suggested, "you can save until you do, or you can work to earn money. You can do extra chores or do things for people and dolls who would rather pay someone to do something than to do it themselves."


"I could do that," Billy agreed, "but what if the puzzle is gone when I have enough money? That would be horrible!"


"That could happen," Veronika agreed, "but I have an idea for that, too."


"You do?" Billy asked.
"Some stores have something called Lay-away," Veronika explained. "You pay part of the cost of something, then each week you go and make a payment on it. When you have paid all the money, you can take it home."
"That's a great idea!" Billy exclaimed.


"You need to find out," Veronika said, "if the store that has this puzzle will do that and how much money you will have to pay for them to keep it for you."


"I'll call them and ask," Billy said.
"That's a good idea," Veronika said. "That will save you a trip in case they say no. Now, I have a suggestion to help you so you don't get into this fix again."
"Tell me," Billy pleaded.


"Well, you need to learn to save money, Billy," Veronika explained. "Here's what I do. When I get my allowance, or get money as a gift, or because I worked for it, I divide it up and put it into two jars. I like to put half into one jar and half into the other."


"One jar is to spend as I like," Veronika continued. "The other jar is to save. I don't touch the money in the savings jar unless it is something very, very special. Then I only take out what I need to spend for the special thing."


"I want to do that, too," Billy exclaimed.
"That's fine, and I can get you some jars to use," Veronika agreed, "but you have to decide for yourself how you are going to divide up your money. The more you put into savings, the easier it will be when there is something you really want or need to spend money on, like the puzzle."


"I'll do that," Billy agreed. "Maybe I can think of a way to earn money, too, but I don't think anyone would let a doll babysit for them or walk their dog."


Veronika laughed. "I can just see even a small dog dragging you off down the street," she agreed, "but maybe you could walk a toy dog, or babysit a younger doll. Maybe you can sell some of your photographs," she suggested.


"You can also save money by not buying new things you don't need," Veronika pointed out. "We can often repair broken toys or torn clothes rather than throwing them out and buying new. That can save you money before you even have it. It's like getting paid not to spend." 


"I wish I had a lot of money," Billy said. "I'll bet dolls who have plenty of money are happy."
"I'm sure you aren't alone in thinking that," Veronika agreed, "but money doesn't make us happy. It's important to have enough to meet our needs, but if you can buy everything you want, you lose out on a lot of the fun of life. Remember why you want a new puzzle?"


Billy thought about that for a moment. "Yes," he said. "This set is too easy, because I've put it together a million times. It's no fun anymore."
"Well," continued Veronika, "that's what it must be like to have a lot of money. Spending it stops being fun."
"I'll bet it would be fun for a while, though," Billy said.


"Maybe," Veronika said, "it would be fun for a while, but then you might start to feel like you needed more, because the things you have to buy to get that good feeling become more and more expensive. We are made to enjoy working for something," she continued. "If you don't need to work and save for the things you want, a lot of the fun goes out of life. You might stop being careful about what you spend and then not have enough later on."


"You might find you need to spend more and more to feel good about yourself," Veronika continued, "and soon you don't have enough. Some dolls go the other way," she added. "They start to love the money just for itself, and that isn't good either."


"You mean," Billy suggested, "like a doll who pretends to eat too many cookies, and it makes him pretend to be sick?"


"Maybe," Veronika said, "but more like when you see someone who has more money than you have, and you don't like them because you're jealous," she explained, "or you stop wanting to help others who have no money, even if you have plenty, because it would mean giving up some of your money."


"Like helping real children who are sick?" Billy asked. "I remember when we took all the bottles and soda cans to recycling. We took the money and sent it to people who help real children who are sick. That was one of the most fun adventures I've had so far!"


"That was fun," Veronika agreed. "We should do that again. Real children need a lot of things. Some things you can't buy with money, but some things you can."
"Well," Billy said, "I just had an idea!"
Veronika looked at him and waited, because she knew he would tell her if she waited.


"Can you get me another jar?" he asked. "I need a jar to hold the money I want to save, a jar to hold the money I can spend AND a jar for money to help children in need. I want to divide my money up evenly between the three jars."


Veronika was silent for a moment. Finally, she clapped her hands and said, "Billy, that's a great idea! I want to do that, too. You are a real treasure!"


"Thanks, Veronika," Billy said. "Now I have a new thing I can work on. This will be fun!"
"We both have a new thing to work on, and it will be fun," Veronika agreed. 


Cast--
Veronika: Götz Classic Kidz Vroni
Billy: Götz Happy Kidz Lily at London

T-shirt image from UIHere.

Note to parents: Here is a good article by Warren Buffett about when and how to start teaching your children about money.

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Do you have questions or comments for us? Would you like to order an autographed copy of one of our books? You can email us at thedollsstorybook@icloud.com.

Note: No dolls were harmed during production of this blog. All dolls shown are Götz Happy Kidz, Classic Kidz or Little Kidz. If you like these stories and are willing, please make a donation of any amount to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or any organization that supports pediatric cancer research and treatment. We are not affiliated with St. Jude in any way other than these donations.

"The Doll's Storybook" is not affiliated with Gotz Dolls USA Inc. or Götz Puppenmanufaktur International GmbH.
Watch for the next story each Friday afternoon at 1:00 PM Pacific Time.

Mariah: Stories from The Doll's Storybook, Emil: Stories from The Doll's StorybookClassic Tales Retold: Stories from The Doll's Storybook, Our Favorite Verses: Poems from The Doll's Storybook and More Classic Tales Untold: Stories from The Doll's Storybook are available from BookBaby and other booksellers worldwide, such as Amazon and Barnes & Noble
Royalties (net proceeds) go to support pediatric cancer research and treatment. If you don't get free shipping elsewhere, buy from Book Baby. Half of the price goes to charity (specific information available upon request). Autographed copies of all three books are available from the author. (Multiple books to the same address have a discount on shipping.) To inquire, email thedollsstorybook@icloud.com.

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Friday, March 22, 2024

Fuzzy Town––A Play

One day, the dolls decided they wanted to put on a play. Charlotte and Mariah were asked to decide which play to perform. "Which play should we do?" Charlotte asked her friend.


"How about Fuzzy Town?" Mariah suggested. "I love that one."


Mariah usually has good ideas, so Charlotte agreed. The other dolls liked the idea, too, so they rehearsed until they were ready to perform for you. Here's Fuzzy Town.

Once upon a time there was a village of dolls. They were all happy and got along with each other.


Each doll had a bag of warm fuzzies.


Whenever one of the dolls would meet another doll, they would give them a warm fuzzy from their bag. 


The warm fuzzy made the other doll feel happy and content.


Whenever one of the dolls would see another doll do something difficult, they would give that doll a warm fuzzy from their bag.


That doll would take the warm fuzzy and put it into their own bag. It would make them feel happy and content, too.

If one of the dolls received help from another doll, they would give that doll a warm fuzzy.


The doll who had helped would take the warm fuzzy and put it into their own bag. It would make them feel grateful and happy that they had helped.


One day a mean sorcerer came to the little village. He was angry because everyone was happy and content, and he wasn't. He decided that it was because of the warm fuzzies. He decided  to try to get them to stop sharing their warm fuzzies.
One day, the mean sorcerer called all the dolls together. He told them that if they gave away their warm fuzzies, they would run out of them and not have any more left.


The sorcerer gave each doll a bag of cold pricklies. "Give these out instead," he said.


The dolls knew that the warm fuzzies were what made them happy and content. They had never thought that they might run out of warm fuzzies. It did not sound good. It made them afraid that if they didn't have any warm fuzzies, they would be unhappy, so they did as the sorcerer said. Each time one doll met another doll, they would give that doll a cold prickly from their bag. They kept their bags of warm fuzzies at home, where they would be safe.


The other dolls would take the cold pricklies. It would make them feel sad and angry.


Soon all the dolls in the town were feeling sad and angry except the mean sorcerer, who chuckled to himself and crept back to his castle.

In this town there was a doll named Vera, who liked to make up her own mind about things and not believe everything she heard or read. Besides, she enjoyed giving out the warm fuzzies and didn't want to stop.


She did not like the bag of cold pricklies, so she took each cold prickly out of her bag and threw it into the closet. Each time she threw away a cold prickly, she said to it, "You will not make me unhappy. You will not make me sad or angry. You will not make anyone else sad or angry, either!"


Everyone in town was now angry and sad except for Vera. After a while, they began to notice that Vera was still giving out warm fuzzies and still had some in her bag. They noticed that Vera seemed to be happy.


They asked her what her secret was.
Vera smiled and gave each of them a warm fuzzy from her bag.


Then Vera showed the other dolls her bag. It was still full. "You can never run out of warm fuzzies," she said. "Every time you give a warm fuzzy away to someone, a new one grows in its place! The sorcerer lied to us."


The other dolls looked at each other in amazement. They did not like feeling angry and unhappy. They wanted to be happy and content again. They remembered how it felt to give someone a warm fuzzy. It was almost the same feeling as getting a warm fuzzy from someone else.


The dolls left their bags of cold pricklies and went home to get their bags of warm fuzzies.


When the dolls came back again with their bags of warm fuzzies, they wondered what to do with all the bags of cold pricklies. 


"I threw mine in the closet," said Vera, "but I have a better idea. Lets use them to play jacks!" She pulled out a ball she had brought along.


So they did. They all sat down and played with the cold pricklies and had fun together. The cold pricklies couldn't make them feel sad or angry anymore. They had lost their power. The mean sorcerer was angry, but he had lost his power over the the dolls, now, too, so he couldn't do anything about it.


The dolls never forgot the lesson they had learned: Giving away warm fuzzies makes more grow in their place. You can never run out of warm fuzzies, and it feels good to give them away!

The dolls brought their warm fuzzies out to share with you when they took their curtain call. A curtain call is when the performers come out at the end of the play to enjoy the applause.
You are clapping for them, aren't you?


Can you think of someone to give a warm fuzzy to now?


Cast--
Veronika/Vera: Götz Classic Kidz Vroni
Mandy: Götz Happy Kidz Katie 2015
Jolena: Götz Happy Kidz Lena in Aspen
Charlotte: Götz Happy Kidz Anna in Paris
Mariah: Götz Happy Kidz Mariah, "Chosen" from My Doll Best Friend
Billy: Götz Happy Kidz Lily at London

Special note to adults and older children: The writer came across this story in 1973. Many thanks to the anonymous commenter who headed us to the original source, Claude Steiner, a psychotherapist, who published the original story in 1969, "A Warm Fuzzy Tale."

You can follow The Doll's Storybook here.
Do you have questions or comments for us? Would you like to order an autographed copy of one of our books? You can email us at thedollsstorybook@icloud.com.

Note: No dolls were harmed during production of this blog. All dolls shown are Götz Happy Kidz, Classic Kidz or Little Kidz. If you like these stories and are willing, please make a donation of any amount to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or any organization that supports pediatric cancer research and treatment. We are not affiliated with St. Jude in any way other than these donations.

"The Doll's Storybook" is not affiliated with Gotz Dolls USA Inc. or Götz Puppenmanufaktur International GmbH.
Watch for the next story each Friday afternoon at 1:00 PM Pacific Time.

Mariah: Stories from The Doll's Storybook, Emil: Stories from The Doll's StorybookClassic Tales Retold: Stories from The Doll's Storybook and Our Favorite Verses: Poems from The Doll's Storybook are available from BookBaby and other booksellers worldwide, such as Amazon and Barnes & Noble
Royalties (net proceeds) go to support pediatric cancer research and treatment. If you don't get free shipping elsewhere, buy from Book Baby. Half of the price goes to charity (specific information available upon request). Autographed copies of all three books are available from the author. (Multiple books to the same address have a discount on shipping.) To inquire, email thedollsstorybook@icloud.com.



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